Maybe he's just not that into me...

The surfer texted me last weekend and Wednesday marked our fourth date, cowabunga dude! He picked me up at my house around 8 with wet locks and a sunkissed face, hot! We headed down Ventura blvd candidly catching up with one another and sarcastically joking back and forth.  We grabbed a drink at the bar while we waited for our table at CPK.  At one point he put his arm around me and I got to feel his abs, yes absss. We had a great dinner with great conversation and ended up catching the 9:30 screening of Shutter Island.  During the movie we sat in our chairs, with no sort of touchy- feely action other than once in awhile glancing at the other acknowledging something going on in the movie. After the movie we were both tired, but continued out witty banter on the ride home.  He offered me gum and popped some in his mouth too.  In my head I was wondering if he was preparing for our goodnight kiss. As we approached my house I anxiously awaited the fourth date goodbye...dun dun dunnnn.... he got out of the car, opened my door...and.....we...... hugged. What up with that? I just don't know what to think about this.  I mean I'm totally cool with taking things slow, but it's not like our lips haven't locked in the past. I'm not sure what to think of this, I mean does he like me? I'm not going to over analyze this situation and turn into a crazy girl, but it would be nice to know what he's thinking. Maybe I need to be the aggressive one in this situation.

Or maybe he's just not that into me....hmmm sad face

xoxo, 20 something